Thursday, 12 May 2016

Brokenhearted



Hey Whisperers,

So i was scrolling through my tumblr the other day and i saw that someone i follow had written a post about their breakup and it was honestly heartbreaking. And so today i thought that i would write a post dedicated to anyone who has gone through a breakup recently, i love you and just know that everything will be ok.

Right now i know that it feels like you will never love again. I know that it feels as if you won't find another person to love the way that you loved them. And it's going to be hard it is. Nobody ever tells you about the heartbreak and pain of love they only tell you about the happiness, the dates, the cuddles the things that they know will make you happy.  But not the heartbreak. 

It's going to hurt for awhile, I'm not going to lie. You're probably still going to wake up tomorrow feeling as shitty as you do today. You're going to walk past shops and see things that remind you of them. See things on the menu that make you remember that it was their favourite food. You're going to look for them when you go to places you know they like, and each time it's going to hurt like a bitch.

You're probably not going to want to leave your bed for anything but food. And that's ok.  But it will get better

You will start waking up feeling happier, You will start to talk to new people. You will find someone else, no matter how much your heart tells you, you won't you will. You will go to the places you used to go and you'll smile instead of want to cry because you'll remember the memories.

It's going to take a while and i know right now you're probably reading this thinking that you'll never be the same as you used to be and you won't. Because you've changed. You loved someone, you aren't the same person you used to be. 

Right now you need to focus on yourself. If you feel like eating a huge pizza to yourself while watching chick flicks then go ahead. If you feel like working out until you feel like your muscles are going to explode, go for it. Do you. Because right now you are what matters. 

Cuddle up in bed and put on a soppy chick flick or a action packed horror to take your mind off it because sitting and thinking about it isn't going to help at all. 

And most of all know that you will find love. You will move on. This isn't the end of  your fairytale. Always remember tomorrow is another day, a fresh start and you never know what's going to happen. To quote the fabulous Forest Gump ' Life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get'

I hope this post helped you a little if you're feeling down. Know that i love you and that everything will be ok. This has done nothing but make you stronger. 

You have to kiss your fair share of frogs before you meet your prince.


Thank you for reading,
Soph xoxo

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